ADHD and Relationships: Strategies for Forming Better Connections
ADHD can have a profound impact on romantic relationships, affecting communication, daily functioning, and emotional dynamics. When one or both partners have ADHD, misunderstandings can easily arise. Forgetfulness, procrastination, and avoidance can sometimes be misinterpreted as a lack of care, when in reality, they are symptoms of ADHD-related executive dysfunction. Learning to depersonalise these behaviours and develop mutual understanding is crucial for maintaining a healthy and supportive relationship.
Family dynamics when one parent has strong Narcissistic Traits
The interactions between these family roles create a complex and often toxic environment. The golden child and the scapegoat may find themselves in direct conflict, with the golden child siding with the narcissistic parent and reinforcing their judgments of the scapegoat. Meanwhile, the enabling parent may attempt to mediate but ultimately fails to challenge the narcissistic parent's control.
Notes on Existential Psychotherapy, Part II: What does it mean to live Authentically?
Inauthenticity can show up in various ways. For instance, someone might pursue a career to meet parental expectations or societal standards, even if it doesn’t align with their passions. Others may suppress their personal beliefs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of judgment or loneliness. Many people adopt behaviours or lifestyles that feel disconnected from their true selves, neglect personal aspirations due to fear of failure, or prioritise material achievements as substitutes for genuine fulfillment.
Notes on Existential Psychotherapy, Part I: A Short History of Existential Therapy
Existential psychotherapy emerged from existential philosophy, aiming to apply its concepts to practical therapeutic work. In essence, it is a form of applied philosophy. Existential psychotherapists use philosophical ideas to help clients address the big questions of life and find answers that are meaningful and relevant to them.
Understanding and Coping with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) in ADHD
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is a common but often overlooked aspect of ADHD. It refers to the intense emotional response some people experience when they perceive rejection, criticism, or failure, even if none is intended. These reactions can be overwhelming, causing feelings of intense shame or failure, often out of proportion to the actual situation.
What is Single Session Therapy?
Single Session Therapy (SST) is a focused, goal-oriented form of therapy designed to help with a specific issue in one planned session. It is not about rushing therapy or trying to solve every problem at once. Instead, it is a structured and intentional meeting where therapist and client work together to create a meaningful outcome in a limited period of time.
Reclaiming Reality: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse Through Existential Therapy
Narcissistic abuse significantly erodes a victim's sense of self and reality. Those affected typically come to therapy feeling confused, believing that they are at fault, and thinking there is something wrong with them that needs fixing. This self-doubt can be even more entrenched if the abuse began in childhood. As victims’ sense of self-worth and reality become heavily dependent on the narcissist, they often start therapy with very little confidence in their own sense of reality and self.
